Wednesday, May 17, 2006
From Zero to a Hero : Get Up!
In our journey as a teacher, sometimes there are hard rain with storm on our way. And often we've got down, even we've fight it nicely. Get defeated, get down, get hit, and anything else synonym to failed. Upset or sad is normal. Even, you can think about resigning. Well dont do it without think. I do these things when got failed on teaching :
Dont be too overhelmed by the failure, just do another thing and dont think about it until you feel good. Well this is hard to do if you still on the location or meet people related to your work or job that failed. Go away from that world. You can go to park or beach to give yourself some silent time. Also you can forget it for a while by playing games or reading comic. I played games on PS 2 when get some problem.
After you've got back your cool brain, then think about the problem again. Whats wrong with it? dont do this to blame yourself, but to know what to do next. Its a bit painfull to remember it again, but remember that doing this thing will benefit yourself. " A success person is the one who can look at his failure with tough face ".
This is the most effective way to help you get up. Call old friend or your best friend. Just talk about what happened. Sometimes "just talking" will relieve your pain. Even better if they can motivate you ( and you must do this when there is friend who need you ).
Pray to God and tell Him that you need His help. Believe me that God will help. He will make a way for you. But still need your action to decide, whether you just sit down and crying or get up and build your dream again.
To get up from emotional breakdown is a hard thing. But if you can do this, you will become stronger and growing better. It will take time, but with patience and persistence, you can work through it. GET UP! ( even a good boxer needs time to get up )
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